August 18th, 2007 (10:23 pm)
current location:
Great Hall
current mood: pensive
I can’t pretend I understand many of the Muggle customs. I know Arthur wishes I did…well, I think he’s less concerned with customs as he is with eklectronics and makinationry, really. In any rate, as Hermione’s mother is a Muggle, Hermione wanted to add some Muggle customs in the ceremony. It is a very special day for Hermione and her mother—of course it is a special day for me, too, saying my sweet boy getting married—and I don’t wish to mess it up just because I don’t understand the meaning of something, so I prepared myself to really study hard.
However, Hannah’s explanation was remarkably simple, and I do confess, when she told me I almost ended up crying right there. The mothers lighting the candles of our children. The children lighting the candle of unity. Joining two families and two flames together…
…oh Merlin, and now I’m crying again.
I look over at Hannah, who gives me a small smile. I can see that she’s tearing up as well.
I square my shoulders and clear my throat. “Well, let’s get on with this or our children are never going to get married.”
"I agree," she says with a chuckle. "There will be plenty of time for tears later."
Together, we walk up the center aisle created by the chairs, take a lighted candle from the holders on either side of the podium, and step up to the unity candle. On either side is a candle, one signifying Ron and the other, Hermione. I look at her and we both nod, tipping our candles down and lighting the wicks for our children.